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Bees are cool and generally won't gently caress with you if you don't gently caress with them. So I just have to assume his hive was custom built to look like a late 90's gaming PC or totally rad Minecraft castle.
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AITA for kicking my MIL out of my house for being passive aggressive about my husband cleaning up?quote:My husband, Tom, and I recently moved into our house, today we hosted our first dinner party with my mother in law (mil), FIL, BILs and their wives and SIL. I took a day off from the my business to make sure everything was perfect. I spent hours on my feet to make sure everything was perfect, I went grocery shopping, cleaned the house and cooked. By the time everyone got here I was exhausted but I still entertained everyone because I was so excited to have them over. Nice and shiny spine. I like how many of her children are tired of MILs bullshit too.
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# ? May 4, 2024 23:31 |
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Shanghaied posted:Not wanting a beehive in your backyard because it didn't match your house. That is a perfectly valid reason to not want a beehive in the backyard. It would be, like, number 46 on my list after concerns about the dog getting stung, me getting stung, our friends and neighbors getting stung, the buzzing sounds, the inability to feel comfortable using my backyard, etc. I'd consider it to be up there with scat play on the "are you really, really, really, really, really, really REALLY sure" scale.
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blackmet posted:That is a perfectly valid reason to not want a beehive in the backyard. Bees are cool and chill, you're thinking of wasps
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blackmet posted:On the one hand, destroying your partners property on purpose is wrong. This isn't any different from that story about that lady's husband destroying her enclosed ecosystem terrarium while she was away from the house for a few days, it's absolutely abuse and this dude needs to divorce her.
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# ? May 4, 2024 23:34 |
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Desert Bus posted:It's called the "Reader's Curse." You know the words you just can't pronounce them. Are you Sam Kates? Because only one person ever called it that. Fatty fucked around with this message at 23:40 on May 4, 2024 |
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blackmet posted:That is a perfectly valid reason to not want a beehive in the backyard. Tell me you've never been around domesticated honey bees without telling me you've never been around domesticated honey bees.
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Fatty posted:Are you Same Kates? Because only one person ever called it that. I learned the term from a friend sometime in the 90's after I said a word wrong. I do not know where they picked it up from.
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Chewbecca posted:How is a beehive that much of an eyesore. and even if it's somehow ugly for whatever reason, your husband likes it so why TF does it matter? We had some friends put a few up on our property (with permission, obviously), and they were just hastily slapped together out of spare lumber and stuff, but it didn't really matter that they looked kind of junky since they were out on rural property where basically nobody saw them. I don't think that's the case here, though, it sounds like it was me of a prefab thing that'd look fine to most people.
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He mentioned it had legs, so it's probably something like this (which looks like a common design according to google??) and not just a bunch of bee boxes: Honestly, it looks more than fine in a garden.
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blackmet posted:That is a perfectly valid reason to not want a beehive in the backyard. You should be ashamed to be this ignorant of honeybees, or are you and your pets and neighbors just completely incapable of not going up to bees and loving with them until they sting you? Do you not know the difference between them and yellowjackets or hornets?!
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# ? May 4, 2024 23:45 |
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Our house gets lots of carpenter bees during the spring and summer months and I adore sitting on the porch and watching those fat idiots float around into poo poo and slapfight each other. The shed roof is just lovely thin potmetal and you can hear them colliding with it because they're derps.
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# ? May 4, 2024 23:48 |
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chances are its a langstroth hive and is one of the lovely ones that looks like a bunch of stryofoam coolers stacked on top of each other(they are wooden)
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Bees are incredible creatures and our planet needs more of them. It seems more like she wanted to destroy something he enjoys rather than it being about how ugly the hive was, she didn't mind what her co-workers would think about a smashed hive in the garden surrounded by distressed bees.
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# ? May 4, 2024 23:53 |
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Around here there's a rooftop café in the middle of the city with an urban bee colony. The hives are fenced off, so guests can't bother them, but the bees can just fly where-ever. I've been there a few times, and the bees don't bother the guests at all, even with all the sweet pastries and drinks all over the place. They're just completely focused on doing their little bee-things.
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Never jeopardize the bees
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Kenshin posted:You should be ashamed to be this ignorant of honeybees, or are you and your pets and neighbors just completely incapable of not going up to bees and loving with them until they sting you? Yeah, the hives we had were displaced a bit from the house, but not *that* far, and we never had any problems. I would just go hang out watching the bees fly in and out, and they didn't care if we weren't harassing the hives or anything.
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FMguru posted:Another "test" (that almost certainly wasn't a test) Sex with my (22f) boyfriend (22m) is so bad quote:Update - https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/dtmbONeSEx Other post from the same account. This post has 3 updates. Another post further in time about their sex life is also there.
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The important thing with bees is learning to distinguish an angry bee from a happy bee. Once you can recognise happy bees you can stop being afraid of them and pretty much ignore their presence.
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The Lone Badger posted:The important thing with bees is learning to distinguish an angry bee from a happy bee. Once you can recognise happy bees you can stop being afraid of them and pretty much ignore their presence. Tell me about the angry bees
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# ? May 5, 2024 00:27 |
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NOT THE BEES!!!
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I've got 3 hives in my garden, have done for years. 99% of the time they're super chill, usually I'll work on them without a suit, I could get away without gloves too but I have major sensory issues with the feeling of them walking over my skin. Biggest issue is the honey, on a good year I'll get an average of 50kg of honey per hive per year, I'll make mead, substitute it for sugar in cooking but it's still a lot. I have had to fence them off due to having a toddler, but beyond that they're no drama at all.
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Kenshin posted:I hate that smell and judge otherwise put-together people that smell like that. It's super gross. I remember a girlfriend from 30-odd years ago saying she was partly attracted to me because I did have the "single man laundry stink". So many guys I knew would just leave stuff in the machine fermenting for multiple days, I loving hate that sour honk, ugh.
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Shanghaied posted:I've been there a few times, and the bees don't bother the guests at all, even with all the sweet pastries and drinks all over the place. They're just completely focused on doing their little bee-things. Bees are great, unlike wasps who stalk these types of areas. I still clearly remember some nightmare fuel from sitting in a pub garden one summer when a friend went to drink from a can of coke with a wasp just inside the lid - which promptly stung her mouth/lips, making me paranoid about soft drinks and wasps ever since. But bees are great.
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deported to Canada posted:Bees are great, unlike wasps who stalk these types of areas. I still clearly remember some nightmare fuel from sitting in a pub garden one summer when a friend went to drink from a can of coke with a wasp just inside the lid - which promptly stung her mouth/lips, making me paranoid about soft drinks and wasps ever since. Oh yeah there is no such thing as a happy wasp.
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carrionman posted:Biggest issue is the honey, on a good year I'll get an average of 50kg of honey per hive per year, I'll make mead, substitute it for sugar in cooking but it's still a lot. Man, that's a ton. I have no idea how much our friends got, but they always had some on hand, they gave us plenty for hosting the bees, and they had enough left over to sell at farmers markets. It's great stuff, fresh honey is really good.
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blackmet posted:On the one hand, destroying your partners property on purpose is wrong. The husband and wife need to do spouse swapping with these two: “AITA for pregnancy/baby-proofing my house?” My wife and I are pregnant with our first child, and we couldn’t be happier about it. I’ve already been feeling left out of our pregnancy due to my wife’s behavior so I was particularly upset that she/the baby would be going on a full week business trip only a few weeks after the good news, but I kept my mouth shut about it because her work plans are already a sore subject. I thought it would be a great time to start pregnancy/baby proofing the house, that she’d be excited to see the nursery/house adjustments when she came back, one less thing for her to worry about. The whole week I spent all my evenings clearing out the room we’d marked for the nursery, painting, putting together furniture, etc. It also seemed like an ideal time to make arrangements for the things my wife can’t use since she’s pregnant—particularly stuff for a sort of dangerous hobby she picked up a while back. When she moved in to my house, she gave me an ultimatum about letting her bring several hives of bees with her, under the agreement that they would stay far from the house. It already made me so so uncomfortable to watch her messing with them when it was just her, but obviously if anything went wrong, being attacked by tens of thousands of bees would easily kill our unborn baby, and likely her as well. And of course they can't be here when we have a baby! I know she’s developed an attachment to them, so saying goodbye would be really difficult, and figured it would be best to take care of that while she was gone so she wouldn’t have the double upset of having to watch them go. I have a friend who’d mentioned wanting to get into the bee business (apparently it can be lucrative to lease them to farms), and he was happy to take them off my hands, so a guy he knows who’s an experienced beekeeper helped us move them. Open and shut, I thought. When my wife got home and saw they were gone, she absolutely lost her mind when I explained. Complete screaming hysterics. I’ve absolutely never seen her close to that upset, and I was genuinely freaked out while I was trying to calm her down. She packed a bag and left, completely refusing to tell me where she was going. I then get a call from my friend who had the bees, completely freaked out because my wife had showed up at his house with her brother, his truck, and a police officer, insisting he give them back to her. I rushed down there and explained to the cop that the bees were my wife’s, and we’re married so legally we share anything that belongs to either of us and it was legal for me to give them away, and that she’s pregnant and obviously can’t tend to them, so they were going to get neglected anyway. The cop completely refused to listen to me and told my friend to give them back. My wife and her brother left with them, and she’s still refusing to take my calls. I’m still in utter shock at the crazy scene she pulled, I know hormones make you nuts when you’re pregnant but this is so wildly out of character for her. Did I not do what literally any husband and father would??
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I don't know why but I can't help visualising her standing on a porch with tears in her eyes as she waves off tens of thousands of tiny little bees. Just think of the heart break he spared her.
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deported to Canada posted:I don't know why but I can't help visualising her standing on a porch with tears in her eyes as she waves off tens of thousands of tiny little bees. Just think of the heart break he spared her. She stands on the porch in the setting sun, singing “ My Heart Will Go On” as the bees sadly disperse into the distance in a golden cloud.
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This stupid motherfucker.............
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FMguru posted:Another "test" (that almost certainly wasn't a test) If you really loved me you would immediately capitulate to all of my demands and do whatever I wanted. i can't believe you'd hurt me like this.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:The husband and wife need to do spouse swapping with these two: Comment by this loving guy: quote:I expressed how uncomfortable I was with them from the start. Tons of people die every year being attacked by bees. I'm not a trained beekeeper, I couldn't just take care of them for her whole pregnancy. What is it with this idea that I gave away something like her cat??? I'm fully stepping up and scooping HER cats litter since she can't, I don't have that option with tens of thousands of wild bees. Apparently pregnant women shouldn't be in cars because safety???!!! No one tells this rear end in a top hat that one of the biggest killers of women is their lovely husbands. And "Why won't you seriously consider becoming a stay at home mum????!!!! You promised to consider!!!! Why won't you consider yourself into doing exactly what I want???!!!!" Irrational fear of bees and controlling. Divorce and abort. Nothing against the baby, but she does not want this guy in her life in any way, shape, or form.
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My [33 M] fiance is drowning in overdue child support, and I [31F] am thinking of leaving him.quote:Okay, so first thing I want to say is that I LOVE my fiance. He's a great guy. Whip smart, kind, funny. A year and a half ago I would never imagined I'd be at this point. quote:Unfortunately, someone linked my previous post from another subreddit, so the post was locked and deleted. quote:The original post was locked and deleted because someone linked it from another subreddit. I've pasted the contents in the first comment.
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hawowanlawow posted:this is all you gotta read This bloke is weaponizing his own incompetence, and trying to use fancy terms to justify it.
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Cythereal posted:My [33 M] fiance is drowning in overdue child support, and I [31F] am thinking of leaving him.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:Did I not do what literally any husband and father would?? LOL. My dad raised bees for a hobby. My sister was allergic to them. None of us ever got stung, although my dad did have to go to the hospital once to get a bee removed from inside his ear. Bees are cool. They're mellow, cute, and helpful. I'd love to get a hive for my garden but I don't want to have to deal with the honey removal and beekeeping stuff; I just want them for pollinators, but I don't think I can do that. But bees always remind me of my dad, who's been gone for nearly 11 years now. I was my kid's track meet the other day and a fuzzy little bee flew over and landed on my hand. It just chilled there with me for a good while, watching the meet, then flew away.
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# ? May 5, 2024 02:44 |
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Fun bee keeping fact: because of the issues bee colonies have been facing, in Florida no one can tell you you can't keep bees. Landlords, HOAs, etc... have no right to say no
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I have a pond and there's an island in the pond and we call it "Bee island" because every year all the neighbourhood bees decide that its the best place to get water. All spring and summer there will be 15-20 bees on this one mossy rock. They'll even let me pet them. It's fun to just hang out with the fish and the bees and pet everyone and splash the mossy rock with water to keep it moist for the bees. A few of my neighbours have bee hives in their yard, sometimes front yard. Very weird to consider this abnormal or some aesthetic crime. Baronjutter fucked around with this message at 03:10 on May 5, 2024 |
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Troublemaker posted:LOL. My dad raised bees for a hobby. My sister was allergic to them. None of us ever got stung, although my dad did have to go to the hospital once to get a bee removed from inside his ear. There's a lot of people who will do things like make structures of little tubes for carpenter bees who pollinate but don't build colonies or produce honey (at least not in harvestable amounts). I'd do something like that, but around here, that feels like making a love hotel for wasps.
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Farmer's Almanac - Solitary Bee Habitatsquote:Bee houses (also called bee hotels or bug hotels) are similar to birdhouses, but instead of attracting birds, they attract native solitary bee species. Unlike honey bees, these solitary bees are extremely docile and up to three times more effective as pollinators. No, you won’t get any honey, but you will enjoy better flowers, thriving plants, and healthier vegetables in your garden!
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